Mastering the Equestrian Mindset: Insights from Episode 22 of the Just Horse Riders Podcast

In the **latest episode** of the Just Horse Riders Podcast, host Aaron Englander sits down with equestrian mindset coach Neil Foster to discuss what really goes on in a rider’s head. From overcoming fear to setting ambitious goals, this episode is packed with insights that can **transform the way you ride**. Watch now on YouTube.

Why Mindset Matters in Equestrian Sports

Whether you're a happy hacker or a five-star eventer, one thing remains true—your **mindset impacts your performance**. According to Neil Foster, riders often focus on **physical training** but neglect the **mental resilience** required to handle setbacks.

"I can't stress enough how important that mindset is in riding. It's massively, massively neglected." – Neil Foster

Getting Back in the Saddle After a Fall

Falling off a horse is **inevitable**—but getting back on is where the real test begins. Many riders **hesitate** due to lingering trauma, and as Neil explains, that fear isn’t just psychological—it’s **biological**.

"When you fall off a horse, like you have a car accident, it leaves trauma. It’s a bit like burning your hand on the stove—your brain remembers the pain." – Neil Foster

So, what’s the fix? **Breaking the fear cycle.** Riders need to retrain their brains to see riding as a **safe** and **enjoyable** activity again. If you’ve been avoiding the saddle, perhaps it’s time to take a **small step forward today**.

Are Equestrians Mentally Tougher?

Aaron posed an interesting question: Are equestrians naturally mentally tougher than other athletes? Neil's response? A mix of **respect and amusement**.

"Have you ever met an equestrian woman?" – Neil Foster

Jokes aside, riders face unique **challenges** that require **resilience**—from handling unpredictable horses to managing competition nerves.

The Trap of Comparing Yourself to Others

Social media has created an **unrealistic expectation** for riders. From perfectly groomed horses to seemingly flawless dressage tests, it’s easy to feel **not good enough**. Neil warns against the **comparison trap**, emphasizing that **progress is personal**.

"If you want a rosette, I’ll go buy you one. The goal isn’t the rosette; it’s the journey." – Neil Foster

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Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

One of the biggest barriers to success? **Your own mind.** Riders often say, "I’m not good enough," or "I’ll never ride at that level." Neil calls these **limiting beliefs**—thoughts that **aren’t based on evidence but still hold you back**.

"The reason most people never achieve is because they’ve never been asked to stretch beyond their comfort zone." – Neil Foster

Next time you catch yourself **doubting your abilities**, ask: **What if I can?**

Why You Need to Enjoy the Process

At the end of the day, riding isn’t about **perfect results**—it’s about the **love for the sport**. Neil encourages riders to **embrace the journey**, not just the end goal.

"Love every single moment with your horse. Love training them. Love the challenge." – Neil Foster

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Guest: Neil Foster